Why I have created this Network and its overall aim.
I had been researching/studying Personal Development - Positive Thinking long before I ever used the internet, so when I first started using the web, being an information junkie, wow I was like a kid in a sweet shop, and I searched and searched and search some more, week in week out for roughly all the 9 years Ive been online, saving much of what I found in files or ebooks, of course I amassed so many files and ebooks, I didnt know what to do with them all, I had used MSN groups before they closed down, I didnt like the alternatives they recommended, I didnt mind google, then a friend told me about Ning, so I joined one, then created my own, then another, not really putting much into the first 2, however by time I came to creating Positive Thinkers, I found I was putting more effort more thought, into it.

Click HERE to access the pages on this network.

As its name may imply it is a self help network for anyone who wants to learn more about becoming a positive thinking person 24/7, I would add the network is completely non profit making in anyway shape or form, everything on this network is freely given to anyone who wants to make use of the resources offered. I would ideally love for everyone on the planet to want to change their thinking style from meme * negative* to us **positive**. the following is a description of many of the Positive Persons Characteristics once youve read them I am sure youll see why its a good idea to become Positive..

Positive Thinking People are happier, more in tune, more balanced and more friendly, and literally all things nice, Positve thinking people take responsibility for their lives, knowing they are responsible for everything that happens to them in every area of their life, if they want happiness they know its down to them to create it, want love, they create it, want luck they create it, something goes wrong they created it by making a misinformed choice or error in judgement, they dont whinge and complain they do something about changing it, they get the job done, they make brilliant Parents and Loving partners, they nurture their relationships, they know how to love and give unconditionally, and do, they empower their children and guide not dictate to them, they treat all others as equals, and are non materialistic, if they give its because they want to, they treat everyone in a fair and balanced way, they talk to not at their children, they are optimists, and see the good in all.

Positives are happy, healthy, capable and doers, they finish what they start, and if things go wrong they look to themselves and the choices made by them recently,. and know that only they can find where they went wrong, they make mistakes and accept this, and then set about making good, they dont judge, or criticise others they accept all humans are equal, they are always happy to help, and expect nothing in return, they are fair, open and honest, they see the good in all people, theyre optimistic, and fun loving, they live in the here and now, and for the moment, they let go of the past, deal with anger constructively, do not allow jealousy or envy to have a hold on themselves, they do not like disputes or arguments, they are not violent, they can forgive and forget and do not hold grudges, they treat all others fairly, They practice gratitude and humility often.

This is what I am hoping to help others attain via this network I have created, I have numerous resources and all of it is freely available to anyone to make use of, there are over 200 articles on the networks forum, plus there are 39 pages many have step by step advice/guidelines for breaking old negative patterns and behaviours, plus positive parenting pages, inspirational stories, explanations, positive parenting ebooks a links page, a F.A.Q page, 4 groups all contain more by way of ebooks and other materials, free for anyone to use.

I am happy to assist anyone who wants to become more positive, in anyway I can. I also offer members a Free Birth Chart & brief analysis this can help them pin point their strongest areas and in turn this will help them remain Positive.

This is why I have created this Network.

If my efforts help one person to attain a positive mindset for the rest of their life, then I have not wasted anything I have made a difference and I have a motto, to Live, Love, Make a Difference, I aim to help not hinder and I also try to lead by example. This is what I hope to achieve by creating this Ning.

Everything on this network is offered freely to anyone who wants to make use of it, There is no monetary gain intended by creating this network. All is offered freely to all who join up. phoenician January 14th 2010

To enable yourself to be positive more or all of the time, the first thing youll need to do is to accept Personal Responsibility for yourself, your life, everything that happens to you, you will need to stop blaming, feeling as if life owes you, realise the choices you make are yours and be prepared to accept the outcome of them good or bad.

Example, say you are feeling undervalued, and youre thinking everyones against you, well taking responsibilty for your life, would mean that instead of blaming how you feel on outside influences you would look to yourself and discover what youre doing that is behind you feeling that way, and it will be something in you no one else is doing a thing, you at some point made a choice and the end result is you feel undervalued. Or you think you are. So go over the choices made recently by YOU, and youll soon find out what is behind it, perhaps you allowed yourself to believe you were the best, and now it turns out another is apparently better, maybe you gave a gift and hoped to be thanked and shown great appreciation, and praise.

If you had accepted responsibility for your life, you would know that if you give and expect something in return youre giving with conditions and if you dont receive what you had expected to, youll feel undervalued, had you given accepting that you wouldnt be thanked or praised, because the giving was done unconditionally, from your higher self not your ego. that means you accepted that it was done because of choice , not for any other reason.

It was because of your giving with conditions that youre left feeling undervalued, there are many articles on here covering this subject,it is recommended you read them before you do anything else, this has to be the first thing a person does, if they hope to become more positive.

Below this text box you will find the blogs area, it is recommended that members create a blog in order to keep track of your progress etc. you can make a blog just for you, or to share with others or just friends, you can also choose to allow or not allow comments , just friends can comment, or just yourself can comment.

Please make a blog by clicking on link in blog area. Thanks. All blogs are hidden from the opening page, to see them or to create your own blog please click on link below this text.

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Taking Personal Responsibility is a big part of becoming more Positive, accepting that the events in our day to day living, are through choices we have ourselves made consciously or not is a vital part of becoming Positive. In creating our own reality, we also create the kind of life we lead.

Also if we accept responsibility we also have to accept that how we react to comments made by others is also through our own perception, that we have either chosen to interpret the words of another for what they are just words or we can read into them something that is only there because of how we have chosen to interpret the words.

We see into things what we want, that doesnt necessarily match how the other person has meant them when writing them. Most times we are completely wrong. We second guess or assume we know what the other person means.

We are all guilty of jumping to the wrong conclusion at times, if however we had given more thought to whatever it is we wrongly concluded, it would save us all hurt and bad feelings between ourselves and another, we often Assume, and when we do most times its wrong.

I have to admit that this is one area I myself need to work on.
When we Assume it makes an ASS out of U and ME

Plus in doing so we are second guessing the other persons motive or intention and that is wrong, only the other person knows what was behind his or her comments, dont guess ASK.

If in doubt ask for elaboration, for the other to tell you in more details what he/she means, dont just guess, youll be in a bigger mess for doing this.

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